Why Real Estate Agents Need a Personal CRM (Not Just Your Brokerage's)
Last updated: December 2025
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You Didn't Choose Your CRM. Your Brokerage Did.
You signed with Keller Williams. They gave you Command.
Or eXp. They gave you kvCORE.
Or RE/MAX. They gave you BoomTown (or Contactually, or whatever your region uses).
You didn't shop for a CRM. You got assigned one.
And now:
- You're paying for it (either directly or through your cap/fees)
- You're expected to use it (broker checks your "activity")
- You're stuck with it (switching brokerages means starting over)
Here's the thing: Your brokerage CRM is built for your brokerage, not for you.
It's built to track leads they give you. To measure your activity. To keep you reporting. To own your data.
It's not built to help you remember Sarah's son made varsity. It's not built to remind you about the Johnsons' 2-year home anniversary. It's not built for YOUR sphere - it's built for THEIR pipeline.
Table of Contents
- The Problem with Brokerage CRMs
- The Big Three: Command, kvCORE, BoomTown
- What You Actually Need
- The Two-System Strategy
- Real Stories from Agents
- How to Use Both Systems
- FAQ
The Problem with Brokerage-Imposed CRMs
Let's be honest about how this works:
You Didn't Choose It
How you got your brokerage CRM:
- Signed with brokerage
- Went to onboarding
- "Here's your login to [System]"
- "Watch these 6 training videos"
- Spent 3 hours trying to understand it
How you'd choose a CRM if it were up to you:
- "What do I actually need?"
- Try 2-3 options
- Pick the simplest one
- Start using it in 10 minutes
The difference: You're using software chosen by someone whose goals aren't the same as yours.
It's Built for the Brokerage, Not for You
What your brokerage wants to track:
- How many leads did we give you?
- How many did you convert?
- Are you "working the system"?
- Are you logging enough activity?
- Can we prove ROI on our lead spend?
What you actually need:
- Who haven't I talked to in a while?
- When is Sarah's birthday?
- What was that thing Mike told me about his kitchen?
- Who do I need to thank for referrals?
These are not the same goals.
Your brokerage CRM is built for reporting and accountability (to them).
What you need is context and relationships (for you).
You Don't Own Your Data
The scary truth:
When you leave your brokerage (and statistically, you will - average agent switches every 3-7 years), you lose access to:
- All your contacts (locked in their system)
- All your notes about people (gone)
- All your activity history (inaccessible)
- All your carefully-built lists and segments (vanished)
You built the relationships. They own the data.
Some brokerages let you export a CSV. Many don't. Even if they do, you lose:
- Notes (often not included in export)
- Activity history (usually brokerage-only)
- Custom fields (don't map to other systems)
You can change brokerages, but your relationships can't.
Unless you have your own system.
It's Usually Too Complex (Because It Does Everything for Everyone)
Brokerage CRMs are built for:
- Brand new agents who need lead nurture
- Team leaders who need lead routing
- ISAs who need call scripts
- Admins who need reporting dashboards
- Compliance who need activity tracking
- Marketing who need drip campaigns
You are:
- A solo agent
- Who builds business on referrals
- Who just needs to remember people
- Who doesn't use 90% of the features
But you're paying for 100% of the complexity.
The Big Three Brokerage CRMs (And What Agents Really Think)
Keller Williams Command
What KW says about it: "The #1 real estate platform. Powerful CRM, marketing tools, lead generation."
What agents actually experience:
✅ The good:
- Integrated with KW ecosystem
- Lead routing for teams works
- Mobile app exists
❌ The bad:
- "Overwhelming if you're solo - built for teams" (agent review)
- Expensive ($100-200/month depending on package)
- Complex setup (1-2 weeks to configure)
- Heavy focus on KW-provided leads (not your sphere)
- Data stays in KW ecosystem (portability issues)
Agent quote: "Command is great if you're on a team and work KW leads. If you're solo and sphere-focused like me, it's overkill. I pay for it because I have to, but I barely use half the features."
eXp's kvCORE
What eXp says about it: "Smart CRM with AI. Lead generation, behavioral tracking, automated follow-up."
What agents actually experience:
✅ The good:
- Comes with eXp membership (seems "free")
- Website and IDX integration
- Marketing automation
❌ The bad:
- "Horrible support - you keep getting passed from one person to the next" (agent review)
- "The whole app is slow, the UX is very much 10 years ago" (agent review)
- AI features are oversold (rarely work as promised)
- Built for lead gen, not relationship management
- Required (can't opt out even if you don't use it)
Agent quote: "kvCORE is part of my eXp fees whether I use it or not. I tried to use it for 3 months and it's just... clunky. The mobile app especially. I went back to my phone contacts and a notebook."
RE/MAX BoomTown (or Contactually, varies by region)
What RE/MAX says about it: "Integrated lead management and CRM for your RE/MAX business."
What agents actually experience:
✅ The good:
- Decent lead capture pages
- Email marketing tools included
- Calendar integration
❌ The bad:
- Expensive add-on (often $500-1000/year ON TOP of RE/MAX fees)
- "Deleted my account without warning" (actual agent complaint)
- Not all RE/MAX offices use same system (confusing)
- Built for high-volume lead agents, not sphere
- Another login to remember
Agent quote: "I'm at RE/MAX and technically have access to BoomTown but honestly forgot my login. I close 15-20 deals a year from referrals. BoomTown is built for agents doing 50+ deals from internet leads. That's not me."
The Common Thread
What all brokerage CRMs have in common:
- You didn't choose them (assigned, not selected)
- Built for brokerage's goals (lead tracking, activity reporting)
- Too complex for sphere agents (designed for high-volume lead processing)
- Data portability issues (locked in their ecosystem)
- You pay whether you use them or not (part of fees/cap)
What You Actually Need (That Your Brokerage CRM Doesn't Give You)
Let's talk about what you ACTUALLY do every day:
Morning Coffee: "Who Should I Reach Out To Today?"
Your brokerage CRM:
- Shows dashboard with 40+ tasks
- Tasks are about brokerage leads ("Follow up on Zillow lead from 6 days ago")
- No prioritization (everything feels equally urgent)
- Your sphere people are buried in there somewhere
- You feel overwhelmed → Close the app
What you need:
- 3 people to connect with today (max)
- From YOUR sphere (not brokerage leads)
- With context ("Sarah - It's been a minute | Last note: Son made varsity")
- Quick action → Feel productive
Red Light: "I Should Remember This About Wade"
Your brokerage CRM:
- On your phone at red light
- Need to: Open app → Wait for load → Find Wade → Tap profile → Scroll → Tap "Add Note" → Select note type → Type note → Save
- By the time you're done: Light is green, cars are honking, thought is half-forgotten
- Reality: You don't log it
What you need:
- Tap one button
- Type "New puppy"
- Tag Wade
- Done in 10 seconds
- Thought captured
Client Meeting: "Remind Me What I Know About Them"
Your brokerage CRM:
- Need to pull up their profile before meeting
- Information is scattered (pipeline stage, lead source, activity log)
- Buried somewhere: The actual human details you care about
- Spend 5 minutes hunting for context
- Still not sure what matters
What you need:
- Open their card
- See immediately: Last thing you discussed ("Thinking about renovating kitchen")
- See immediately: Upcoming dates ("Birthday in 2 weeks")
- Context in 5 seconds
- Walk into meeting prepared
Year-End: "I'm Switching Brokerages"
Your brokerage CRM:
- You lose access when you switch
- CSV export (maybe) with names, emails, phones
- All your notes? Gone.
- All your relationship context? Lost.
- All that time invested? Vanished.
- Start over at new brokerage with their CRM
What you need:
- YOUR data goes with you
- YOUR notes stay with you
- YOUR relationships are portable
- Switch brokerages without losing your sphere
The Two-System Strategy: Use Both (Each for Different Jobs)
Here's the thing: You don't have to choose.
Most successful agents use TWO systems:
- Brokerage CRM (because you have to)
- Personal CRM (because you want to)
Use Your Brokerage CRM For:
✅ Brokerage-provided leads
- They're tracking these anyway
- You have to log activity (broker is watching)
- Keep them in their system
✅ Transaction tracking (if required)
- Some brokerages require you to log closings in their CRM
- Do the minimum to stay compliant
✅ Team coordination (if applicable)
- If you're on a team, lead routing happens here
- Use it for the team stuff
✅ Whatever your broker requires for compliance
- Activity minimums
- Reporting requirements
- Lead accountability
Time commitment: 5-10 minutes/day for compliance
Use Your Personal CRM (MEMO) For:
✅ Your sphere (past clients, COI, referral sources)
- These are YOUR relationships
- They're not going away if you change brokerages
- You need context, not pipeline stages
✅ Quick capture (thoughts at red lights)
- Your brokerage CRM is too slow
- MEMO's FAB is built for this moment
✅ Daily "who to reach out to"
- Your brokerage CRM shows 40 tasks
- MEMO shows 3 people
- You need finite goals
✅ Data ownership
- When you switch brokerages (and you probably will)
- Your MEMO data goes with you
- Your relationships stay intact
Time commitment: 5 minutes/day (Short List) + 10 seconds per thought capture
The Math Works
Total time with one system (brokerage CRM):
- 30-45 minutes/day trying to make it work
- Feeling frustrated and overwhelmed
- Still not staying on top of sphere
Total time with two systems:
- 5-10 minutes/day in brokerage CRM (compliance minimum)
- 5-10 minutes/day in MEMO (actual relationship work)
- 15-20 minutes total
- Actually staying connected to sphere
You save time AND get better results.
What Agents Really Think About Brokerage CRMs
kvCORE (eXp)
"Horrible. You keep getting passed from one customer service person to the next and get nowhere." — Verified kvCORE user review
BoomTown (RE/MAX, varies by region)
"The whole app is slow, the UX is very much 10 years ago." — Verified BoomTown user review
Command (Keller Williams)
Multiple agents report that Command is "overwhelming if you're solo" and "built for teams" rather than independent agents who work their own sphere.
The Common Thread
What agents consistently say about brokerage CRMs:
- Built for the brokerage's tracking needs, not agent's relationship needs
- Required but not chosen
- Data portability issues when switching brokerages
- Too complex for solo agents focused on sphere business
- Paying for features designed for high-volume lead operations
The two-system reality: Many successful agents use their brokerage CRM for compliance (because they have to) and a personal system for their actual sphere relationships (because they want to).
How to Use Both Systems (Practical Workflow)
Setup (Week 1)
Step 1: Keep using your brokerage CRM for what you must
- Brokerage-provided leads
- Required activity logging
- Team coordination
Step 2: Import YOUR sphere into MEMO
- Export contacts from brokerage CRM (if possible)
- Or manually add your top 50 sphere people
- Or sync from phone contacts
- Takes 10-15 minutes
Step 3: Set boundaries
- Brokerage CRM = Work leads (theirs)
- MEMO = Relationships (yours)
Daily Workflow (Ongoing)
8:00 AM: Open MEMO
- See The Short List (3 sphere people)
- Pick one, reach out
- Log the touchpoint via FAB
- 5-10 minutes
- Feel productive
9:00 AM: Open Brokerage CRM
- Check assigned leads from brokerage
- Log required activity
- Do compliance minimum
- 5-10 minutes
- Feel compliant
Throughout the day: Capture thoughts in MEMO
- Red light → FAB → "Sarah's son made varsity" → Done
- Coffee shop → FAB → "Wade got new puppy" → Done
- 10 seconds per capture
Evening: Daily Deal (optional)
- 5 quick questions
- Enrich your sphere data
- 2 minutes
- Feel like progress
Total time: 15-20 minutes/day across both systems
Long-term: Data Ownership
Scenario: You switch brokerages
Your brokerage CRM:
- Access lost (or expires after X days)
- Leads were theirs anyway (no loss)
- Transaction history might export (depends)
Your MEMO:
- Still there
- All your sphere contacts
- All your notes
- All your context
- Nothing changes
You import your sphere data into NEW brokerage's CRM if needed. But MEMO is your source of truth.
FAQ: Using a Personal CRM Alongside Your Brokerage's
"Won't my broker be mad if I don't use their CRM?"
No - as long as you do the minimum they require.
Most brokers care about:
- ✅ Are you logging brokerage-provided leads?
- ✅ Are you showing activity?
- ✅ Are you hitting metrics?
Most brokers DON'T care about:
- ❌ Whether you track your personal sphere in their system
- ❌ What other tools you use
- ❌ How you manage your referrals
Do the compliance minimum in their system. Use MEMO for everything else.
If your broker asks, the answer is: "I use [Command/kvCORE/BoomTown] for leads and transactions. I use MEMO for my personal sphere. It helps me stay on top of relationships."
That's a perfectly reasonable answer.
"Isn't using two systems more work?"
Counterintuitively, no.
Trying to use one system (brokerage CRM) for everything:
- 30-45 minutes/day
- Frustrated the whole time
- Still not on top of sphere
Using two systems (each for its purpose):
- 5-10 minutes in brokerage CRM (required stuff)
- 5-10 minutes in MEMO (sphere relationships)
- 15-20 minutes total
- Better results, less frustration
Why it's less work:
- Each system is purpose-built for its job
- You're not fighting the brokerage CRM trying to make it do things it's not designed for
- MEMO is 10x faster for relationship tasks
"What if I want to put EVERYTHING in one system?"
Then you want a full CRM like Follow Up Boss or LionDesk.
MEMO is not trying to be an all-in-one CRM. We're not trying to replace your brokerage's system entirely.
MEMO is a relationship manager for YOUR sphere.
If you need:
- Transaction management
- Team lead routing
- Pipeline stages
- Comprehensive reporting
You need a full CRM. That's not us.
But if you:
- Build business on relationships
- Want to own your data
- Need something simple and fast
- Want portability across brokerages
MEMO is the personal system that complements your brokerage's CRM.
"My brokerage CRM has a mobile app. Can't I just use that?"
You can. The question is: Do you?
Most brokerage CRM mobile apps are "desktop crammed into a phone."
They CAN do everything. But they're not optimized for:
- ✅ Capturing thoughts at red lights (too many taps)
- ✅ Seeing "who to reach out to today" (too much clutter)
- ✅ Quick context before a meeting (too much scrolling)
MEMO is mobile-first. Purpose-built for the phone.
Try both. See which one you actually open daily.
"Can I import contacts FROM my brokerage CRM to MEMO?"
Usually yes, via CSV export.
Most brokerage CRMs let you export contacts as CSV.
Then:
- Export CSV from brokerage CRM
- Import CSV into MEMO
- Map fields (name → name, phone → phone, etc.)
- Done
What transfers:
- Names, phones, emails ✅
- Birthdays, addresses (if in export) ✅
- Custom fields (depends on mapping) ⚠️
What usually doesn't transfer:
- Activity history (locked in their system) ❌
- Notes (sometimes included, often not) ⚠️
- Pipeline stages (MEMO doesn't use stages) ❌
Solution: Start fresh in MEMO. Use Daily Deal to enrich over time. In 2-3 months, MEMO will have more useful context than your brokerage CRM ever did.
"What happens when I switch brokerages?"
This is the whole point of having your own system.
Without a personal CRM:
- Leave Brokerage A
- Lose access to their CRM
- Join Brokerage B
- Start over in their CRM
- Lost: All your notes, context, relationship history
With MEMO as your personal CRM:
- Leave Brokerage A
- Still have MEMO (nothing changes)
- Join Brokerage B
- Use their CRM for new leads
- Continue using MEMO for your sphere
- Lost: Nothing. Your relationships came with you.
Your relationships are portable. Your data is yours.
"Does MEMO integrate with Command/kvCORE/BoomTown?"
No. And that's intentional.
Integration would mean:
- ❌ Data living in their ecosystem
- ❌ Losing access when you leave brokerage
- ❌ Their system's complexity infecting MEMO
MEMO is independent by design.
You can:
- ✅ Export from brokerage CRM → Import to MEMO (one-time)
- ✅ Use both systems side-by-side (ongoing)
- ✅ Take MEMO with you when you switch (portability)
Independence = ownership.
"How much does MEMO cost on top of what I'm already paying my brokerage?"
MEMO: $49/month ($588/year)
Your brokerage CRM: Already paying (via fees/cap/add-ons)
Total additional cost: $49/month
Is it worth it?
Ask yourself:
- How many referrals did you lose last year because you forgot to follow up?
- How many past clients drifted away because you lost touch?
- What would one extra referral per year be worth? ($10-20K+)
If MEMO helps you get one extra referral per year, it pays for itself 20x over.
Plus: When you switch brokerages, you keep your data. That's priceless.
The Bottom Line: Your Relationships Should Be Yours
Your brokerage gives you a CRM. You didn't choose it. It's built for them, not you.
You can:
- Fight it (try to make their CRM work for your sphere) → Frustration
- Ignore it (go back to spreadsheets/nothing) → Lost referrals
- Complement it (use theirs for compliance, MEMO for relationships) → Best of both worlds
Most successful agents choose option 3.
They use their brokerage's CRM because they have to.
They use MEMO because it actually works.
15 minutes/day across both systems. Better results. Data you own.
When you switch brokerages (and statistically, you will), your relationships come with you.
Because MEMO is yours. Forever.
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